CLEMMONS - Mr. Benjamin Sylvester Ruffin departed this life on
Thursday, Dec. 7, 2006. He was born Dec. 11, 1941, in Durham, the son
of Catherine and Benjamin S. Ruffin. Ben completed his secondary
education on the Durham City Schools, graduating from Hillside High
School in 1960. He continued his pursuit of education at North
Carolina Central University, completing a Bachelor of Science degree
in 1964. He later earned a Master of Social Work (MSW) degree from the
University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill. Ben has been hailed as an
"educator, civic leader and humanitarian." At the time of his death,
Ben served as president and chief executive officer of his company,
The Ruffin Group, which he organized Oct. 4, 1999. He had one
executive assistant, Essie C. McCullough, in the company that
specialized in government relations, public affairs and community
relations. Ben received many awards and honors during his brilliant
career of extraordinary achievements. Among them are eight honorary
degrees from colleges and universities; the 1991 NAACP Kelly Miller
Alexander Humanitarian Award; the North Carolina Kappa Man of the Year
Award; Distinguished Alumni Awards from the University of North
Carolina School of Social Work; the North Carolina Association of
Black County Officials Frederick Douglass Leadership Award; and the
National Urban League's Donald H. McGannan Citation. Ben was a "life"
and "golden heritage" member of the NAACP, a Prince Hall Mason and
former polemarch of the Winston-Salem Chapter of Kappa Alpha Psi
Fraternity, Inc. In addition to his many accomplishments, Ben was an
active member of Emmanuel Baptist Church, serving as a Sunday school
teacher and usher. He was an avid golfer and jogger. He leaves to
cherish his memory, his wife of 31 1/2 years, Avon; two daughters,
April Ruffin-Adams (Fred) and Benita. In addition to his wife and
children, he is survived by a brother, Fred (Patricia Ann) Ruffin; and
three sisters, Celestine McIver, Carolyn Blount and Cheryl Smith, all
of Durham; in-laws, Carolyn (George) Napoleon, of Amityville, N.Y.,
and Lillian (Charlie) Morgan, Thomas Long Jr., Mary Lowe (Greg),
George Long and Ruth Long, all of Salisbury; and a host of nieces,
nephews and very special friends. Funeral services will be held at 11
a.m. Tuesday, Dec. 12 from Emmanuel Baptist Church, 1075 Shalimar
Drive, with the Rev. Dr. John Mendez officiating. Interment will
follow in Evergreen Cemetery. The family will receive friends from 7
to 9 p.m. today, Dec. 11 at Emmanuel Baptist Church. In lieu of
flowers, the family request that memorials be made to the Benjamin S.
Ruffin Scholarship Fund, NCCU Foundation, P.O. Box 25111, Durham, NC
27707. On memo line put Benjamin S. Ruffin Scholarship. Online
condolences may be made at
www.russellfuneralservice.com .